Drowsy

Evan and I had a pretty serious conversation about friendship tonight which was very different from our normal "how was your day? eat anything good?" We talk about food way too much.
Anyway, the friendship topic was brought up because my longest time best friend just posted on facebook she's engaged. Now I'm not really sure if it's true or not because a lot of people will randomly put they're engaged for no apparent reason but if it is true, what happened to at least calling people instead of just posting it on facebook? Is that what society has come to? If you don't have a facebook apparently you don't get to find out about anything. This is the one reason why I have contemplated deleting facebook so many times.
So bringing this up to Evan made us start talking about friendships we have lost in our lives. It made me realize that while I love my friends, how many of them do I really get involved with? I never talk with them on the phone, sure there's occasional texts but what has happened to real interaction? Everyone else always has someone else in the group they can talk about life with and I really don't. There isn't someone who I could just talk on the phone to for hours. I don't have anyone I'm CLOSE to. I never really thought about this that much but talking with Evan about it made me think. I'm not really sure what to do. Is it my fault I never initiated a phone call to see how someones day went but instead I just find out through statuses. Is that just the way the world is now where the real friendships that I once had are lost in the interwebs? Or am I just "acceptable" and not "initiated". Maybe sleep will help clear my mind.